Ukraine

May 12-31, 2003

Sunday, May 25, 2003

 We're still having a good time of it.  We think the last one of these was written about Friday, but we're having a hard time remembering.  So I'll talk about Saturday and Sunday.
 
Saturday we were expecting to work at the Center in the morning and then go to the wedding at 2pm.  None of us were too thrilled about having to work in the morning, but of course we would have done anything that was asked of us.  When someone finally ventured downstairs in the morning, however, she found that Anna and Ernie had gone to the bazaar and that we weren't going to be working.  They came back around 8:30 and we had breakfast.  Then we left for the Universal Mogue...maybe that's how you spell it...if not, that's at least how it sounds.  The Universal Mogue is sort of a department store, but that might be a bit of a stretch.  It kind of looked like just an indoor, more organized bazaar.  The building had four floors and sold everything from ear rings to fridges to dishes to those big furry hats you always associate with Russia.  Anna and Ernie spent the hour buying the dishes for the wedding.  We all chipped in to get them for Vitali and Larissa who got married in the afternoon.  They were really pretty.  The whole set cost about 500 grievnas ($100).  Anyway...we roamed around there for an hour then we all met at the pizza place for lunch.  While the pizza wasn't Dominos or Papa Juan's, it was still pretty good.  I think this was one of the few restaurants in the city.  I'm growing more and more fond of the American dollar the more time I spend here.  The nine of us ate lunch for about $20.
 
A little before 2 we left for the wedding.  It was held in the sanctuary at the Center.  And oh was it hot!  The place was full, so there were about 70 of us.  The way Ukrainian weddings go is that the bride and groom go to the courthouse for the official ceremony.  This takes about ten minutes, exchanging a few vows then signing the papers.  Since Vitali and Larissa are Christians of course they also wanted a Christian ceremony.  And on top of that they wanted it to be somewhat American.  They also asked Ernie to to do it.  So Sergey translated for Ernie.  Now the repeating of the vows can sometimes be tricky enough when you're just repeating the pastor.  But this was doubly tricky.  Sergey had to try to translate the pieces of the vows into something that made sense in Rusky, then of course Larissa and Vitali had to try to focus in on what Sergey said.  It got interesting a few times.  I think all of that took close to an hour.  Then we headed outside to cool off for a while (I think the sanctuary had to be at least ten degrees warmer than the rest of the building.  It was so hot!  And Ukrainians don't really believe in breezes).  Meanwhile, the food and the entertainment was being prepared.  We went in to look at the food at one point so we could see it before it got eaten.  What a spread!  I don't think I've ever seen so much food in one place.  I think Larissa, who works here at the house, and another lady prepared it all.  Maybe around 3:30 we all went back in to be entertained.  A song was sung and some skits were done.  There was a raffle at one point.  All of the money went to the bride and groom.  There was also a little auction.  Sergey translated a little for us, but he was also involved in some of the stuff.  So we're really not sure what all went on, but people seemed to enjoy it.  Finally about 4:30 we went to eat.  There were a lot of sandwiches.  People here are really big on fish and such things.  You even see people sitting out on the side of the road selling fish, shrimp, and other sea food, of course non of it is refrigerated.  So you have to just hold your breath and walk by quickly when you see the sea food people with their goods.  So some of the sandwiches  consisted of a piece of bread with a fish on top of it.  Needless to say, we all stayed away from those!  There was some wonderful sweet bread.  This bread was bought some where.  I think we'd all like to bring a lot of it home with us.  It was so good!  There were also some layer cake things.  And a lot of salami sandwiches (that and bologna, I think, are the only kinds of sandwiches they eat here).  And then of course some fruit and vegetables.  It all looked really good.  We didn't stay around too long, even though we didn't leave until 5.  Ernie had told us that we'd being doing good if we could get out of there by 5.  I think everyone else hung around a lot longer.  Ernie indicated when we left that really the party was just getting started.  So that was an interesting experience.  In the evening I think some people watched a movie while a few of us walked to the sea and sat there until it was almost too dark to see our way back.  So Saturday was pretty restful.
 
And then today we did our four hours of church.  We did another skit and Jennifer and Joanna gave their testimonies, though only at Primorsk (it was kind of forgotten here in Berdyansk).  The neat thing here is that every Sunday people give testimonies about how God worked in their lives over the past week.  That's so neat (when we have an interpreter, anyway), and it's something that I wish we did more in the States.  Sergey was leading the sharing time, but he also stepped forward some and translated for us (here in Ukraine the guests always sit in front--even at the wedding, even though we didn't know the people).  Ernie finished his sermon from last week, going on to verse two of Romans twelve.  It was really good.  Then it was back to the house for a quick lunch and rest, then off to Primorsk (about a half hour drive--taking a slight digression:  I bet road rage in not much of a problem here.  Since there are no lines on the road, people can pass whenever they want.  So there's no such thing as getting stuck behind a slow driver).  It's no wonder Ukraine was the bread basket of the Soviet Union.  The fields just go on for miles.  I really like the Primorsk church.  I feel like the singing is a little livelier then here in Berdyansk.  So we did everything again.  Jennifer's and Joanna's testimonies were good, as was the skit.  The people here really get into the skits, which is fun.  The sermon was once again really good.  Poor Sergey has to be warn out come Sunday evening.  He sat beside us (at Primorsk, on the front row) and translated for us so that we'd know what was going on.  Then of course he translated for Ernie again.  I asked him on the way back what language he thought in when he translated.  He said, in his funny way (he's got a great sense of humor, in both English and Russian), that he doesn't think, he just spits it back out. 
 
Anastasia and Joanna are with Jo still in Primorsk at the English class, but the rest of us are back here at the house.  I think tonight the five of us are going to compile thank you gifts for people and just chill out.  I guess this short note is enough for now.

 

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